Sometimes I really resist a DIP assignment because I experience it as being ‘not relevant to me anymore’, but – where I recognize that I haven’t 100% cleared the point that the assignment is dealing with and so I do see that this experience is a justification / postponement.
When I see these points I push myself to investigate different words and memories until I finally break through with identifying the specific memory to work with, and walk through it in writing and see dimensions of myself / a reaction pattern that I had not yet seen before where, I see so specifically my point of Self Responsibility and Self Honesty in how I contributed to creating a certain event in the past – that I’m finally able to Resolve this past event within myself because I finally see how to move forward with self forgiveness and Solutions in redefining how I will now approach such moments in the future – where, the memory no longer exists as a lingering emotional charge that pops up from time to time – but where I can stand Clear in that memory and not react – not ‘re-live’ the reaction – because I’ve effectively taken self responsibility for who I was in that past moment and I’m no longer ‘stuck’ in a point of justification, blame, judgment towards what happened. I’m now able to stand one and equal with that past moment – without a feeling of there being something ‘unresolved’. And in this I give myself the gift of being able to share my process of change and solutions, to assist and support others.
It’s always a Challenge to break the chains of an emotionally charged past moment – but it’s always worth it to keep pushing for self honesty – because sometimes even writing ONE sentence, or identifying ONE word can finally open up the realization of how I created a consequence in myself, my relationships, my world – and through that open up the solution to move forward with self forgiveness, self creation, self expansion, self expression.
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